totem locks no main window patch to xfree available http://bugzilla.gnome.org/show_bug.cgi?id=111349
Sorry, this is a XFree thing, not a gnome (or totem for that matter) thing. Totem only triggers the bug, the patch is for xfree.
this is already in 4.3 for quite some time, altough i believe now the patch isnt completely correct and there is an improved one somewhere. I should look into that sometime soon. Totem doesn't directly require the patched xfree, i'll try to fix that soon as well. *** This bug has been marked as a duplicate of 21336 ***